Let Go of Negativity

“It may be shocking when you realize for the first time that there is something within you (the pain-body) that periodically seeks emotional negativity, seeks unhappiness. You need even more awareness to see it in yourself than to recognize it in another person”

One of the things I have tried very hard to eliminate from my life is negativity. Negativity is nothing but toxic energy. This toxic energy can come in the form of toxic people, or energy vampires whose only job is to suck and drain the life out of you; or toxic situations. When I find myself in one of these toxic environments, be it with people or circumstances, if I cannot turn the situation around, then I merely excuse myself and remove myself.

If someone offered you a bottle of poison to drink, would you? Yet, you deliberately ingest someone else’s negativity or toxicity.
The next time you are in the presence of a toxic person or a person who drains you of energy, remember the bottle of poison analogy, and don’t allow their toxins to enter into your soul.

A negative emotion is any “emotion that is toxic to the body and interferes with its balance and harmonious functioning. Fear, anxiety, anger, bearing a grudge, sadness, hatred or intense dislike, jealousy, envy—all disrupt the energy flow through the body, affect the heart, the immune system, digestion, production of hormones, and so on”

Then, there are those of us who do not need the negative people or situations, because we can be negative all by ourselves. We manufacture our own negative thoughts and continuously feed on them. The bottle of poison is still appropriate here, yet we are self-inflicting the poison. We have very little control of what thoughts enter our heads. But we have definite control of what thoughts remain there.

The next time you notice that you are in the grip of a negative emotion, become still and pay attention to the way your body feels. See if you can locate the negative emotion in your body. Perhaps your heart is beating fast, your jaw is tense or your belly is tight. By being present with your body, you can allow the negative emotion to dissipate instead of reacting to it.

“You will be free to let go of your unhappiness the moment you recognize it as unintelligent. Negativity is not intelligent”

This week, pay close attention to negative thoughts, feelings or actions and any background unhappiness, including resentment, discontent, nervousness or being “fed up.” Become alert to your negativity and repeat silently: “At this moment, I am creating suffering for myself.”

Questions to Ponder:

• “Who are the toxic people in my life?”
• “Who are the nutritious people in my life?”
• “Who do I choose to spend more time with?”

Stay positive on purpose!

Live Passionately,

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Christine is a certified life coach for women. She is the founder of Girltime Coaching and also writes her blog, Live Passionately.